The boys love playing outside |
1. Try to find some activities that your children can do together. I know it can be challenging when there are age gaps, but if you are creative there is usually something that might be of interest.
- Open-ended art activities
- Sensory play
- Combine interests (playing store + space = space store)
- Baking
- Toys that can be used by many ages
TJ and MJ playing home-made board games |
2. Add in some fun family activities that get everyone laughing and feeling happy
- Dance party
- Rough housing
- Jokes
- Playing outside
The boys a few years ago |
4. Special time for siblings. Just as special time is important between the parent and child, it can be great for siblings too. It might work to set aside a structured regular time together. Find an activity they can enjoy, or a special project just for them. You might want to test this idea out with different sibling combinations if you have more than two kids.
My oldest and youngest have a very special bond. They love to play with stuffed animals and read together. We are helping the younger two to find some activities they both share in common to help them with their relationship.
5. Build in special rituals into your day for siblings to say good-bye or goodnight to each other. For our family we try to remember to wish each other well on our way out the door. To pause and actually say “I hope you have fun at swimming” or whatever they are off to.
At night the older boys like to come in and help tuck in their younger brother and give him a hug.
TJ and JJ building a robot costume |
6. Unite your kids on a mission. This could be a special project like a card for someone, or a fun game you invent. Perhaps you want your kids to make a family video or newsletter. You can also get the kids to team up against you (in a fun way) for a water fight, or silly race. Team-work is what we are going for here.
Our favourite memories are of water fights and working together to decorate for parties together.
7. Start a family kindness journal, or notes for each other. At the beginning of family meetings it is always recommended to start with affirmations and appreciations. You could record these to reflect on when times are more challenging.
For the month of February my boys wrote notes of appreciation and taped them to each others bedroom doors each day.
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What else would you add to the list?
So creative! Thank you so much!!
ReplyDeleteThank you. I hope you got some good ideas.
DeleteLove the family kindness journal idea! We always make each other handmade birthday cards each year. It's always more special than buying a card.
ReplyDeleteThat is such a wonderful idea. We love homemade cards too
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